Read the book: «The secrets of conscious consumption»

© Alexey Goldman, 2025

ISBN 978-5-0068-0272-8

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ALEXEY GOLDMAN
THE SECRETS OF CONSCIOUS CONSUMPTION

Introduction: Why Does “Just Buying It” No Longer Work?

Dear reader! Picture this: you come home from shopping, put your bags down on the table, and suddenly catch yourself thinking: “Why did I even buy this?” Or you open your closet – and there hang clothes with tags still on, never having had their moment. Sound familiar?

We live in a world where you can buy anything and everything, instantly. It’s convenient, but this convenience has another side. Our “simple purchases” pile up into enormous mountains of waste with nowhere to go. The planet is growing weary from the endless extraction of resources for new goods. And what about us? We often feel exhausted by the overwhelming number of choices, anxious about money wasted, and even a little sad – so many things, yet no more happiness.

Conscious consumption isn’t about buying nothing at all. And it’s not about strict deprivation. It’s about making choices carefully and with an understanding of the consequences. Because every ruble we spend is like a vote. A vote for the kind of world we want to see: one buried in trash, or one that’s cleaner, fairer, and more… meaningful.

Why is this especially important right now? Because the problems have become too obvious to ignore, and the desire to live a lighter, more meaningful life has never been stronger. We are beginning to understand that true wealth isn’t in the quantity of things we own, but in the quality of our lives – in free time, peace of mind, and a healthy planet for our children.

Chapter 1: What Is Conscious Consumption? It’s Simpler Than You Think!

I bet a few thoughts have already crossed your mind: “This probably costs a fortune,” “I don’t have time for all this complexity,” or “This is only for wealthy hipsters.” Well, we’re happy to tell you – that’s not the case! Conscious consumption isn’t about elitism or sacrifice. It’s about common sense and care – for yourself, your finances, and your home – planet Earth.

The essence is incredibly simple:

Buy Less: Pause before you buy and ask yourself: “Do I truly need this?” Learn to recognize and avoid impulsive “wants.”

Buy Better: When you do buy, choose quality items made with respect for people and nature (this doesn’t always mean super expensive; often, it’s just about durability!).

Use Things Longer: Take good care of your belongings, repair them, and find new uses for them.

Recycle Smarter: When an item has finally served its purpose, try to ensure it gets recycled instead of just thrown away.

The main focus shifts from the quantity of stuff in your life to the quality of your life itself! Conscious consumption is a path to greater freedom: from debt, from cluttered spaces, from the guilt of unnecessary spending. It’s about surrounding yourself with things that bring you joy and utility, not items that just gather dust in a corner.

Practice: The “10-Second Rule”

Before any purchase (even a small one!), hit the pause button. Stop. Count to ten (silently, of course). And ask yourself three simple questions:

“Do I REALLY need this?” (Or is it just a fleeting desire?)

“Where will I store this?” (Is there a place for it? Will it just end up lying around?)

“What happens if I do NOT buy this right now?” (Maybe it can wait? Or maybe I won’t need it at all?)

Those 10 seconds can save you a ton of money, space, and nerves!

Chapter 2: It Starts in Your Mind: How Our Habits Control Our Wallets

Ever noticed how easy it is to buy something you don’t need? It often happens almost on autopilot. Our purchases are driven not only by real needs but also by powerful “external forces” and internal states.

Advertising: It’s everywhere! Its job is to make us feel like our lives are incomplete without that specific item. It plays on our dreams and fears.

Social Media: Our feeds are flooded with beautiful pictures, “outfits of the day,” and product reviews. We see what others have bought, and we want it too. It’s like an endless storefront.

Impulse Triggers: A bright display at the checkout, a “hot” discount, the phrase “last one left!” – all these push us towards a spontaneous purchase.

Emotional Shopping: This is when we go to the store not for a specific item but for… a mood boost. To cope with stress, beat boredom, or reward ourselves after a tough day. Shopping gives a quick but short-lived high, often followed by guilt.

How to recognize emotional shopping? Ask yourself: “Am I buying this because I need it, or because I’m sad/bored/tired/angry?”

Our habits are powerful! If we’re used to “shopping” on weekends or scrolling through online stores in the evening, it becomes an automatic action.

Practice:

List Your Triggers: Think and write down what most often pushes you towards unnecessary purchases. For example:

Boredom (sitting at home with nothing to do – I’ll go browse shops/websites).

Stress (tough day – I deserve a treat like chocolate/a new lipstick).

Sales (70% off! Got to get it, even if I don’t really need it).

Going to the mall “just to look” (it rarely ends with just looking).

The “I might need this someday” mindset.

Find an Alternative: For each of your triggers, come up with a different, more useful or enjoyable activity! For example:

Instead of shopping out of boredom – go for a walk in the park, call a friend, read a book, watch a great movie, work on a hobby.

Instead of shopping from stress – take a bath, do some exercise, listen to your favorite music, pet your cat/dog, meditate for 5 minutes.

Instead of the thrill of sales – unsubscribe from store newsletters, delete shopping apps, give yourself a mandatory “cooling-off” period (e.g., 24 hours) before buying even a discounted item.

By understanding what drives your spending, you take the first step toward taking back control.

Chapter 3: The Home Inventory: What Do We Already Own?

Remember playing “treasure hunt” as a kid? It’s time to play it in your own home! We often have no idea just how much stuff we’ve accumulated. Things get lost in the depths of closets, storage rooms, and drawers. We buy new things, completely forgetting about the old.

Doing a thorough inventory can be a real shock: “Do I really own all this?!” But it’s also a fantastic opportunity to:

See the Real Volume: How many t-shirts do you have? Mugs? Jars of cosmetics? Towels? Do you actually use all of them?

Find “Forgotten Treasures”: That book you meant to finish, a beautiful vase, a gift that got lost, an item that’s back in style! It’s like getting a present from your past self.

Understand Your Real Needs: After the inventory, it becomes clear what you’re genuinely missing (probably almost nothing!) and what was bought “just in case” and never used.

Free Up Space: Cleared-out shelves and drawers bring an incredible feeling of lightness and order!

Practice: Tackling One Zone (e.g., a kitchen cabinet with dishes/mugs)

Choose one small, specific area to tackle (one kitchen cabinet, one dresser drawer, a bathroom shelf). Don’t try to conquer your entire wardrobe at once!

The “One Item at a Time” Rule: Take things out one by one. Hold each item in your hands.

Make a Decision:

Keep: The item is in good condition, you use it or will use it soon, and you like it.

Discard: The item is broken, damaged, beyond repair, or unusable (old tubes, a cracked cup).

Donate/Sell: The item is in good condition but you don’t need it, don’t like it, or it doesn’t suit you. Someone else could find it useful!

Recycle: Items made from suitable materials (glass, certain plastics, paper).

Start a “Giveaway Box”: Immediately place items from the “Donate/Sell” category into a box. Keep it in sight so you don’t forget to deal with it later (we’ll cover this in Chapter 13).

The key is to start small! Success in one zone will give you motivation for the next.