Read the book: «Brain reset after 40»

© Alexey Goldman, 2025

ISBN 978-5-0068-0014-4

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Alexey Goldman
Brain reset after 40

Chapter 1: Your Brain After 40: Not Decline, But New Possibilities!

“Welcome to the start of an amazing journey! If you’re over 40 and sometimes catch yourself thinking ‘oh, my memory isn’t what it used to be’ or ‘I just don’t have the energy,’ this book is your trusted guide. Let’s bust the biggest myth right now!”

Busting the Big Myth: “The brain ages and declines – and there’s nothing you can do about it.” Not true! That’s an outdated notion. Think of your brain not as a static rock, but more like playdough or a muscle. Yes, it changes, but it remains incredibly flexible and capable of learning at ANY age! This is called neuroplasticity (in simple terms: the brain’s ability to change, create new connections, and learn). After 40, this isn’t just possible – it’s the key to mental clarity and energy!

Why We Notice Changes: Life after 40 is often more intense and complex (work, family, responsibilities). The brain gets overloaded, and old “autopilot” routines can start to glitch (“Where are my keys?” “What’s the new colleague’s name?”). This isn’t decline; it’s a signal: it’s time to give your brain new challenges!

Science is On Our Side: Research shows that the adult brain is perfectly capable of creating new neurons (brain cells) and connections between them, especially if we train it. A famous example: studies of London taxi drivers showed their hippocampi (the memory center) actually grew as they learned the city’s map!

Your Strengths RIGHT NOW: After 40, your brain possesses unique advantages:

Wisdom and Experience: You can see the bigger picture, find creative solutions, and understand people better.

Emotional Resilience: You often handle stress better than you did in your youth.

Crystallized Intelligence: The knowledge and skills accumulated over the years are your powerful resource!

Practical Exercise: “My Strengths”

Take a piece of paper.

Write down 3—5 things you are good at right now (it can be anything: cooking, resolving conflicts, planning trips, understanding technology, listening to others).

Write how each of these strengths helps you in life.

Goal: To realize that your brain is already a powerful tool that can be made even better!

Motivational Example: Olga, 52. She always dreamed of painting but was afraid it was “too late” to start. At 48, she signed up for a beginner’s course. It was tough at first, but she practiced a little every day. Now her paintings are exhibited in the local library! “I feel like my brain has come alive; I have incredible energy and joy from creating. Now I know – it’s never too late to learn!”

Your brain after 40 isn’t a weakening flashlight; it’s a powerful spotlight that just needs the right tuning and new tasks. Neuroplasticity is your super-skill! Ready to unlock it? Let’s go!

Chapter 2: The Foundation of Reset: Sleep – Your Main Ally

“Imagine a nightly cleaning and repair crew working inside your head. Sleep isn’t a luxury; it’s a vital construction site for your brain!”

Why Sleep is More Important Than Ever After 40:

Brainwash: During deep sleep, the glymphatic system activates (simply put: the brain’s “cleaning” system). It flushes out toxins and “debris” (including proteins linked to cognitive decline) that accumulate during the day. Without good sleep, this debris builds up – leading to “brain fog,” fatigue, and memory issues.

Memory Consolidation: Sleep is when the brain “files away” new information, transferring it from short-term to long-term memory. Poor sleep means poor recall.

Energy Refueling: Quality sleep restores energy reserves in brain cells. Miss sleep, and your battery is dead by lunchtime.

Emotional Balance: Lack of sleep makes us irritable, anxious, and less resilient to stress.

How Sleep Changes After 40 (This is Normal):

Harder to fall asleep.

Wake up more often during the night (especially near morning).

Less deep sleep.

Sleep schedule is easier to disrupt.

Important: Don’t write off chronic insomnia just to age! It can and should be addressed.

Practice: Sleep Hygiene – Your Ritual for Great Rest. It’s not complicated but requires consistency:

Consistency is King: Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day (even on weekends!). This sets your internal clock.

Bedtime Ritual (30—60 min): A signal to your brain that it’s “time to wind down.” Try a warm bath/shower, calm music, reading (not from a screen!), light stretching, meditation, a cup of herbal tea (chamomile, lemon balm). Avoid: Bright lights, heavy meals, alcohol, caffeine, heated discussions, work.

Bedroom = Sleep Sanctuary: Keep it cool (18—21°C / 64—70°F), QUIET (earplugs are great!), and COMPLETELY DARK (sleep mask, blackout curtains). Remove the TV, laptop, and smartphone!

Bed is Only for Sleep and Intimacy: Don’t work, watch TV, or scroll through your phone in bed.

Morning Daylight: Open the curtains or step onto the balcony – light helps set your biological rhythms.

What to Do If You Can’t Sleep? (Simple Strategies):

The 20-Minute Rule: Can’t fall asleep after 20 minutes? Get up, go to another room, and do something calm and boring in dim light (like read a physical book). Return to bed only when you feel sleepy.

Don’t Watch the Clock! This increases anxiety (“Oh no, it’s already 3 AM, and I’m not asleep!”).

4-7-8 Breathing: Inhale through your nose for 4 counts, hold for 7 counts, exhale through your mouth (with a slight whoosh sound) for 8 counts. Repeat 4—5 times. This calms the nervous system.

Example: Sergei, 47. He constantly felt worn out and had “mush for brains” by afternoon. He started going to bed at 11:00 PM (putting aside all work/devices), bought blackout curtains and earplugs. He created a ritual: 15 minutes of reading a physical book + a cup of chamomile tea. “Within two weeks, I started waking up naturally at 6:30, without an alarm! I have energy all day, and my head is clear. Now I understand that sleep isn’t a waste of time but an investment in myself!”

Quality sleep isn’t a privilege; it’s a basic need for your brain’s reset. Start small – choose 1—2 items from the sleep hygiene list and implement them this week. Your brain will thank you!